Refuse Hardness of Heart with a PASSION – Part 2

by Katy Kauffman

I entered the semi-dark balcony and searched for the right spot. Most everyone had left the church sanctuary that particular Sunday morning, but I needed to pray. I found a seat, and told God what was on my heart.

I had seen people on television walk into chapels and cathedrals when they desperately needed help. They would slide into a pew and not say anything out loud. They would only look to the front of the sanctuary, their prayer written on their faces. I did the same.

I looked to God in that desperate moment. I wanted to connect with Him in a place where week after week His people sought wisdom from and fellowship with the Almighty. Have you ever been so desperate for Jesus’ help that you sought Him in a place that was special to you?

Wanting Him, Instead of Refusing Him

Unlike the people in Jesus’ hometown, the people of the land of Gennesaret were desperate to find Jesus (Mark 6:53-55). Perhaps they had seen the man whom Jesus had freed from a legion of demons and heard his story (Mark 5:1-20). Perhaps news of Jesus had been as a balm to their souls—He could heal anyone of anything. They recognized Him once He and His disciples stepped out of the boat onto land, and they ran to find their loved ones and bring them to Jesus so He could heal them. Faith in action.

They lined the marketplaces with the sick and “begged Him that they might just touch the hem of His garment. And as many as touched Him were made well” (Mark 6:56 NKJV). Faith rewarded.

Touch Jesus to Be Made Well

Last week I talked about the dangers of hardness of heart. In Mark Chapter 6, five passages or vignettes show us the consequences of unbelief or hardness of heart. They are consequences that even Christians need to be aware of. The final passage or vignette in Mark 6 shows the remedy—touch Jesus to be made well. Hardness of heart is a sickness of the soul that Jesus can cure.

What does it look like to “touch” Jesus today? We can’t see Him or physically touch Him. So how do we show the same amount of faith in Him that the people of Gennesaret did?

Remedy hardness of heart and unbelief in these ways:

  • Turn from unbelief and embrace faith in who God is and what He can do.
  • Refuse selfishness and choose to depend on God’s ways, His methods, and His timing.
  • Make the effort to get help.
  • Do everything you know to do to seek Jesus—pray, study Scripture, go to church, seek out godly friends, listen to praise music, and obey what He has told us to do.

In order to overcome hardness of heart, we have to want help and then seek it. We have to see the danger of unbelief and decide that we don’t want what we can make out of our lives, but we want what God can do. And we have to believe that freedom is possible. Just as Jesus healed the woman who had a flow of blood for twelve years and freed the demon-possessed man of the legion of demons and brought Jairus’ daughter back to life, Jesus can do the amazing and the impossible in our lives. He has the means and the love to do it. Are we willing to trust Him to do it for us?

Once You’re Healed, Then What?

Just as the formerly demon-possessed man told the surrounding region all that Jesus had done for him, we can share how Jesus has healed us. You may be able to do that through writing, speaking, teaching, or friend-to-friend conversations. God has placed each of us where He wants us to share His truth and love. He also sends us to places that need to hear about His amazing power and grace.

Not only can we share about the Healer of hearts and Savior of souls, we can cherish Him. We can maintain a heart of gratitude and praise for what He has done, and we can keep our hearts open to listen to His leading and respond to His instruction.

So the adventure has just begun. A heart that has been saved by Jesus and is continually being transformed by His word and His power is a heart that He can use to share the gospel and how faith in Him makes a difference in our lives. 

Let’s not keep this good news to ourselves. Keep writing, keep loving, keep ministering. Stay close to Jesus, and refuse hardness of heart. It’s just not worth missing out on life with Jesus.


© Copyright 2018 by Katy Kauffman


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Comments (10)

  • anon

    As I read your remedies for hardness of heart and unbelief, I thought about how we need to renew these from time to time. We may embrace faith for one aspect or time period of our live but then need reminders of that choice later for situations we face. God never changes, but we do. This post honors Him and reminds us to share what He has done in our hearts. Thank you. 

    Nov 02, 2018
  • anon

    Thank you, Jeannie, and I appreciate what you said about renewing our commitment to God. We need to keep trusting Him, as new challenges happen, and not revert to unbelief or doubt. Faith is a choice throughout our Christian lives, to depend on God and follow Him. Thanks for mentioning that about our choices!

    Nov 02, 2018
  • anon

    Thank you, Katy, for the reminder that we can (and should) use our writing to share His truth and love. It is truly an adventure to watch Jesus do the amazing and impossible in my life and the lives of those around me! Great article - thank you!

    Nov 02, 2018
  • anon

    Thank you, Julie. I'm glad to be a fellow writer with you!

    Nov 02, 2018
  • anon

    I like the idea that we should just keep giving to others what we've been given. Blessings can carry over from one person to the next.

    Nov 02, 2018
  • anon

    Yes! We can pass on the blessings we've been given. Thank you for your comment!

    Nov 02, 2018
  • anon

    Katy, I love how you pointed out that their finding healing produced contageous joy that had to be shared. May we never lose the wonder of our salvation. 

    Nov 02, 2018
  • anon

    Amen, Debbie! Thank you for commenting about joy. The joy we have in God helps us to continue in faith and overcome doubts, and it motivates us to share about Jesus. Hope you have a good Thanksgiving next week!

    Nov 02, 2018
  • anon

    Thank you.
    Tried to highlight and paste particular points- but unable to. My tech skills again??? lack of that is.
    Thanks for confirming I am walking in appropriate ways. Pain really tempts us to harden our heart.
    Thanks for the encouragement. Really needed as I face the issues in my marriage.

    Nov 02, 2018
  • anon

    Hello, Geoff,
    I am not sure what happened with trying to copy and paste lines. I have done it in the past, so I hope it works for you if you try again. I am glad you found this post encouraging, and I pray God strengthens you and guides you.

    Nov 02, 2018

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